Don’t sit around waiting for a boy to make you a priority, communicate his intentions, or even call you on the phone. And this God created and rules his world, including men, women, the biological compulsions that bind them together, and the institution that declares their union and keeps it sacred and safe. Girls, stop expecting guys to make any formal attempt at winning your affections.

That’s especially true if the person you are with has little desire to stop. I’ve literally talked to a girl who said, “Jessie, I don’t know what to do.But God had much more in mind with romance than orgasms or even procreation, and so should we. When people in the world are expecting less and less of each other in dating, God isn’t.So, as singles we have to work harder in our not-yet-married relationships to preserve what marriage ought to picture and provide.And from that first relationship I had learned about my own boundaries and what situations I should avoid to keep true to God’s command.After the struggles from the first relationship, I resolved to be steadfast and pure with my second relationship.